Deze vraag heeft me al een lange tijd in zijn greep. Stel je eens voor dat er 2 jonge mensen hevig verliefd zijn. Ze hebben de tijd van hun leven, groeien iedere dag dichter naar elkaar toe en maken meer lol dan hen lief is. Er is alleen een probleempje. De een gelooft in God, de ander niet. Zal deze relatie stand houden en steeds serieuzer worden of heeft deze relatie geen toekomst?
Volgens mijn neef kan een relatie geen stand houden als er geen geloof gedeeld wordt. Je kunt geen relatie hebben met een niet-christen, of waar je dan ook maar in gelooft. Je moet namelijk in je relatie één worden met God. Samen bidden, samen praten over geloof, kortom: samen het geloof leven. Er zijn teveel verschillen tussen iemand die niet gelooft en iemand die wel gelooft en dat is de reden waarom zo'n relatie niet kan werken.
Maar, nu kom ik met mijn mening, die ik nou niet bepaald onder stoelen of banken steek, en ik zeg: maar wat nou als de niet-gelover in die relatie het geloof van de ander volledig accepteert, er goed over kan praten en de ander in zijn/haar normen en waarden laat? Ik zie dan weinig problemen aangezien er geen ruzie over gemaakt wordt. Als je je geloof niet deelt samen kunnen daar juist prachtige gesprekken uit voort komen, die je alleen maar dichter bij elkaar kunnen brengen. Als je elkaar hoe dan ook accepteert en elkaar in zijn/haar waarden laat kan het juist een mooie relatie worden. Er zijn ook zat niet-christenen die wel leven volgens de Bijbel, dus mensen die goede dingen doen, maar die simpelweg niet geloven dat er een God is. Tot zover geen probleem, vanuit mijn perspectief.
Toch zijn er ook heus wel een paar nadelen verbonden aan het hebben van een relatie met een niet-christen. Eén daarvan, is diepgang. Je mist de gesprekken over het geloof en over wat God jullie relatie te bieden heeft. Het is juist fijn om met iemand te praten over lastige dingen (geef toe: geloven is soms knap lastig!) omdat je met iemand samen bent die jouw mening deelt. Samen Jezus en God ontdekken is dan niet mogelijk. Een ander nadeel is dat je geen stok achter de deur hebt. Als ik vaker met iemand ben of praat die ook gelooft, ga ik zelf vaker nadenken over hoe ik ergens over denk. Een relatie hebben met iemand die gelooft kan dus een geweldige manier zijn om zelf dichter bij God, of waar je dan ook maar in gelooft, te komen.
Ik denk dat iedereen zelf moet uitvinden wat voor hem/haar het beste werkt in een relatie en daar zelf een weg in moet vinden. Desondanks blijft het een lastig onderwerp en ik den niet dat het snel uit mijn gedachten zal verdwijnen!
maandag 17 juni 2013
zaterdag 25 mei 2013
Time to do something new.
This holiday I have a long to-do-list and I will keep everyone updated via a blog. My new blog is called
Yasmin's Holiday To-Do-List
so if you want to read what I am doing in this long holiday (about 3 months! That is very long in The Netherlands) you have to go to
www.holidaytodolist.blogspot.com !
See you there!
xx
Yasmin's Holiday To-Do-List
so if you want to read what I am doing in this long holiday (about 3 months! That is very long in The Netherlands) you have to go to
www.holidaytodolist.blogspot.com !
See you there!
xx
vrijdag 20 juli 2012
It's The Most-Fantastic-Things List You Can Do If You Are 7 weeks, 49 days, 1176 hours, 70560 minutes and 4233600 seconds free!
What to do with 7 weeks, 49 days, 1176 hours, 70560 minutes and 4233600 seconds of freedom during summerbreak? Everyone goes to Italy, Germany, France, USA, Croatia, or further. But you, you're staying home this year and you have no idea what to do. Well, I can help! Just follow this list and I promise: you'll have the best holiday you ever had! It's The Most-Fantastic-Things List You Can Do If You Are 7 weeks, 49 days, 1176 hours, 70560 minutes and 4233600 seconds free!
How does this list work?
- You have to follow it correctly, otherwise it won't help
- This list is funnier if you follow it with someone else (Your mom, dad, cousin, brother, sister, best friend who also stays home this year, or someone you just met.)
- Make sure you really want to do this
- I make a day to day list on sunday evening for the next week
- Remember: it's fun!
Enjoy, fellow homestayers ;) !!
This is the 'first' week. Yes, I know, it's not sunday evening, but it doesn't matter!
Week 0
Friday: Start with cleaning up your room. Throw every unnecessary thing away. A clean room is a clean head.
Saturday: The best day of the week, I totally agree! Start with having a light breakfast, maybe a fruitsalad. Then you have to make yourself beautiful, take a shower, take on your finest clothes and put your make up on like you are a supermodel! Go to the supermarket and buy everything for a five course menu. It's fun to be totally dressed up in such a silly shop as the supermarket. Boys/girls are looking at you and it gives so much confidence! When you are at home, get in the kitchen and cook this lovely meal for your family. Ofcourse, as a real supermodel you have to go to the bathroom to put some evening makeup on! Have a great night with your family.
Maybe, you can text some friends for a wild night out, the finishing touch of this haute couture day!
Sunday: After a wild night out, you woke up later than usually. This day is your active sunday. You start with a good breakfast. After your breakfast you're going to the gym, or you're going to sport outside. Running, walking, cycling and that all in the sun. It's better for your body and your mind.When you exercise outside in the open air you'll burn more calories and it's more relaxing. The rest of the day is for you! Do what you want to do! Ps- text a friend and ask her if she's free a few days the next week!
That was week 0!
At Monday 23th July week 1 will start!
How does this list work?
- You have to follow it correctly, otherwise it won't help
- This list is funnier if you follow it with someone else (Your mom, dad, cousin, brother, sister, best friend who also stays home this year, or someone you just met.)
- Make sure you really want to do this
- I make a day to day list on sunday evening for the next week
- Remember: it's fun!
Enjoy, fellow homestayers ;) !!
This is the 'first' week. Yes, I know, it's not sunday evening, but it doesn't matter!
Week 0
Friday: Start with cleaning up your room. Throw every unnecessary thing away. A clean room is a clean head.
Saturday: The best day of the week, I totally agree! Start with having a light breakfast, maybe a fruitsalad. Then you have to make yourself beautiful, take a shower, take on your finest clothes and put your make up on like you are a supermodel! Go to the supermarket and buy everything for a five course menu. It's fun to be totally dressed up in such a silly shop as the supermarket. Boys/girls are looking at you and it gives so much confidence! When you are at home, get in the kitchen and cook this lovely meal for your family. Ofcourse, as a real supermodel you have to go to the bathroom to put some evening makeup on! Have a great night with your family.
Maybe, you can text some friends for a wild night out, the finishing touch of this haute couture day!
Sunday: After a wild night out, you woke up later than usually. This day is your active sunday. You start with a good breakfast. After your breakfast you're going to the gym, or you're going to sport outside. Running, walking, cycling and that all in the sun. It's better for your body and your mind.When you exercise outside in the open air you'll burn more calories and it's more relaxing. The rest of the day is for you! Do what you want to do! Ps- text a friend and ask her if she's free a few days the next week!
That was week 0!
At Monday 23th July week 1 will start!
zaterdag 2 juni 2012
PARIS BABY!
Hi,
A few weeks ago I went to Paris and wauw, what a city! It inspired me so much... It made me thinking of new possibilities. Here is a day-to-day-report!
Monday, May 21 2012: I woke up early to make the last things ready. The bus left at 07.30 am, and we all had to sit in the bus for the next 9 hours. We arrived in a rainy Paris, not what I expected, but okay, we had to do a lot of things! We had to load the stuff out of the bus, and we had to set up our tents! Everyone was wet and tired, but we still hadn't had no dinner yet, so we had to cook! My friends and I made pasta: macaroni. Cooking on a small gas stove is not really Jamie Oliver- style, but oh, it was hilarious! After we did our dish (which was very funny too, because the pasta was burnt and we couldn't clean the bottom of te pan!), we went to the Arc the Triomphe! After we went back to the camping, I went straight to bed: I was exhausted!
Tuesday, 22 May 2012: After we took all a shower and a breakfast we went to the Metro-station to go to the Notre Dame. It's a beautiful cathedral! My teacher told me so much about all the paintings in it, and about the construction of this building! Did you know that all the kings of the Old Testament were statued on the outside of the Notre Dame? Then we walked to the Louvre, one of the most famous museums in the world (because of the Mona Lisa). I saw the piramide (and as a real tourist I made a lot of pictures this day ;-) )!
We lunched in Jardin de Tuileries (at the back of the Louvre). There were a lot of black men who wanted to sell me things like little Eiffeltowers, and they couldn't understand me... So I just said: Rot op! (Shut up in Dutch)! Very funny, because they didn't know what I was saying. I could see the Champs- Elysées from that garden, and it is a very 'Haute couture' street ;-).
We took the metro to the famous Tour Eiffel (Eiffeltower) and I climbed up to the top! What an amazing view, really. I felt like a giant... all the people, builidings and cars were so tiny.. like little spiders! We took the metro again, but this time to La Défense (big companies have established themsleves here) and we shopped a lot for the cooking contest that evening. I have seen the Grand Arche, an arc, based on the same straight line as the Louvre and the Arc de Triomphe.
Our 'Haute Cuisine' dinner:
Appetizer: Ordinary lettuce
Main dish: Ravioli with red sauce
Desert: Chocolate fondu.
Wednesday, 23 May 2012: Today I went to the Opéra, Paris' music building, built in the 18th century. It's a massive building and so nice! You can see so much light, and stairs, and windows. It's like a palace, and I imagined that all kinds of good dancers and singers performed here once. Then we went to quarter Montmartre, which used to be a tine village near by Paris, bu since 1865 it's a neighboorhood from Paris. It is also called the Artistsquarter, because so many famous artists lives here (Picasso and more). Toward the Sacré Couer we sat and the sun burned my shoulders, the rest of the week my shoulders hurt :( . And.... I saw the world famous Moulin Rouge! It was a little bit of an anti climax. I thought it was like the movie (Moulin Rouge with Nicole Kidman and Ewan McGregor), but it was only a small building with (Oh yes!) the mill. Nothing more than that.... But: I've seen it!
We had permission to shop in Bour Bourges, a shopping mal. My friends and I must also eat in this mal, so we went to Mac Donalds (what a surprise!). I also saw the original Mona Lisa (or La Jaconde) itself! I've been in the Louvre! It is a nice museum, an extra large museum, but oh so beautiful. A lot of special paintings, with all a lovely story and I could walk in it for a whole day! And, like we weren't tired, we made a bustrip through Paris. Paris by Night! Wauw, maybe Paris is by night more beautiful than by day.
We arrived the camping at 23.30pm and the next day was a long day too, so I went straight (again, I know) to bed.
Thursday, 24 May 2012: This is a very special day, because we went to Paris by ourselves! We were allowed to go to a couple of famous things by our own! We went to a museum and a stupid cathedral! Oh, there was something funny at that cathedral! Here comes te funniest story of the week:
At the entrance of the cathedral, were a couple of agents, who were supposed to check if you were not having any dangerous things in your bag/pocket. And my three friends walked through a customs gate and there was nothing wrong! So I thought: everything is going to be allright.. Well, it went wrong. The gate starts to bleep and the agents said a lot of things to me in French, which I didn't understand. And what did I do? Exactly: I walked to the nearest wall, spread my arms and legs and stand against the wall. And all of the people in that little room started to laugh! I was like: 'What? What do the mean?' All I had to do was turn around, so that they could look with their device if there was nothing in my pockets. And that stupid thing started to bleep also! I immediately thought of the prison: '16 YEAR OLD GIRL TRIED TO BLOW AN OLD FRENCH CATHEDRAL'. But it was only my phone.
Since that moment, nothing could go wrong, right? Oh yeah, everything could go wrong! At the ticket office of the cathedral said an old, moody lady we were not old enough. 'You may only participate under guidance, or if you are older than 18. Non c'est impossible!' So... we called our teachers, our heroes! They came and we had to wait for almost half an hour, in the blazing sun! When we finally were able to see the cathedral's inside and... it was boring!
Then we we were going to shop in Bour Bourges. I only bought sunglasses.. because I couldn't find ane nice clothes:(
We ate pizza with the whole group and then we went to the guay, where we had to tell the rest of the group what we had done that day.
As rousing valve of this unforgettable week, we made a very nice boattrip on the Seine. We saw all the nice sights again.. and it was, in my opinion, magical!
Friday, 25 May 2012: Everyone was tired, but we had to pack our tents and clean op the terrain. Everyone was silent during the busstrip at home.
Yasmin at Notre Dame ↓
My good friend Chayennah and me at the Louvre
The view from Jardin des Tuileries
Eiffeltower
Opéra
In the bus I thought about this wonderfull week, and I said to Paris: A Bientôt, Paris!
A few weeks ago I went to Paris and wauw, what a city! It inspired me so much... It made me thinking of new possibilities. Here is a day-to-day-report!
Monday, May 21 2012: I woke up early to make the last things ready. The bus left at 07.30 am, and we all had to sit in the bus for the next 9 hours. We arrived in a rainy Paris, not what I expected, but okay, we had to do a lot of things! We had to load the stuff out of the bus, and we had to set up our tents! Everyone was wet and tired, but we still hadn't had no dinner yet, so we had to cook! My friends and I made pasta: macaroni. Cooking on a small gas stove is not really Jamie Oliver- style, but oh, it was hilarious! After we did our dish (which was very funny too, because the pasta was burnt and we couldn't clean the bottom of te pan!), we went to the Arc the Triomphe! After we went back to the camping, I went straight to bed: I was exhausted!
Tuesday, 22 May 2012: After we took all a shower and a breakfast we went to the Metro-station to go to the Notre Dame. It's a beautiful cathedral! My teacher told me so much about all the paintings in it, and about the construction of this building! Did you know that all the kings of the Old Testament were statued on the outside of the Notre Dame? Then we walked to the Louvre, one of the most famous museums in the world (because of the Mona Lisa). I saw the piramide (and as a real tourist I made a lot of pictures this day ;-) )!
We lunched in Jardin de Tuileries (at the back of the Louvre). There were a lot of black men who wanted to sell me things like little Eiffeltowers, and they couldn't understand me... So I just said: Rot op! (Shut up in Dutch)! Very funny, because they didn't know what I was saying. I could see the Champs- Elysées from that garden, and it is a very 'Haute couture' street ;-).
We took the metro to the famous Tour Eiffel (Eiffeltower) and I climbed up to the top! What an amazing view, really. I felt like a giant... all the people, builidings and cars were so tiny.. like little spiders! We took the metro again, but this time to La Défense (big companies have established themsleves here) and we shopped a lot for the cooking contest that evening. I have seen the Grand Arche, an arc, based on the same straight line as the Louvre and the Arc de Triomphe.
Our 'Haute Cuisine' dinner:
Appetizer: Ordinary lettuce
Main dish: Ravioli with red sauce
Desert: Chocolate fondu.
Wednesday, 23 May 2012: Today I went to the Opéra, Paris' music building, built in the 18th century. It's a massive building and so nice! You can see so much light, and stairs, and windows. It's like a palace, and I imagined that all kinds of good dancers and singers performed here once. Then we went to quarter Montmartre, which used to be a tine village near by Paris, bu since 1865 it's a neighboorhood from Paris. It is also called the Artistsquarter, because so many famous artists lives here (Picasso and more). Toward the Sacré Couer we sat and the sun burned my shoulders, the rest of the week my shoulders hurt :( . And.... I saw the world famous Moulin Rouge! It was a little bit of an anti climax. I thought it was like the movie (Moulin Rouge with Nicole Kidman and Ewan McGregor), but it was only a small building with (Oh yes!) the mill. Nothing more than that.... But: I've seen it!
We had permission to shop in Bour Bourges, a shopping mal. My friends and I must also eat in this mal, so we went to Mac Donalds (what a surprise!). I also saw the original Mona Lisa (or La Jaconde) itself! I've been in the Louvre! It is a nice museum, an extra large museum, but oh so beautiful. A lot of special paintings, with all a lovely story and I could walk in it for a whole day! And, like we weren't tired, we made a bustrip through Paris. Paris by Night! Wauw, maybe Paris is by night more beautiful than by day.
We arrived the camping at 23.30pm and the next day was a long day too, so I went straight (again, I know) to bed.
Thursday, 24 May 2012: This is a very special day, because we went to Paris by ourselves! We were allowed to go to a couple of famous things by our own! We went to a museum and a stupid cathedral! Oh, there was something funny at that cathedral! Here comes te funniest story of the week:
At the entrance of the cathedral, were a couple of agents, who were supposed to check if you were not having any dangerous things in your bag/pocket. And my three friends walked through a customs gate and there was nothing wrong! So I thought: everything is going to be allright.. Well, it went wrong. The gate starts to bleep and the agents said a lot of things to me in French, which I didn't understand. And what did I do? Exactly: I walked to the nearest wall, spread my arms and legs and stand against the wall. And all of the people in that little room started to laugh! I was like: 'What? What do the mean?' All I had to do was turn around, so that they could look with their device if there was nothing in my pockets. And that stupid thing started to bleep also! I immediately thought of the prison: '16 YEAR OLD GIRL TRIED TO BLOW AN OLD FRENCH CATHEDRAL'. But it was only my phone.
Since that moment, nothing could go wrong, right? Oh yeah, everything could go wrong! At the ticket office of the cathedral said an old, moody lady we were not old enough. 'You may only participate under guidance, or if you are older than 18. Non c'est impossible!' So... we called our teachers, our heroes! They came and we had to wait for almost half an hour, in the blazing sun! When we finally were able to see the cathedral's inside and... it was boring!
Then we we were going to shop in Bour Bourges. I only bought sunglasses.. because I couldn't find ane nice clothes:(
We ate pizza with the whole group and then we went to the guay, where we had to tell the rest of the group what we had done that day.
As rousing valve of this unforgettable week, we made a very nice boattrip on the Seine. We saw all the nice sights again.. and it was, in my opinion, magical!
Friday, 25 May 2012: Everyone was tired, but we had to pack our tents and clean op the terrain. Everyone was silent during the busstrip at home.
Arc de Triomphe
Little movie of the Eiffeltower
Seine
Moulin Rouge
zaterdag 7 april 2012
Postcrossing!
Hi!
Easter is also a time of thinking about your sins. Maybe you think that Jesus didn't die for you, well I can tell you: He did. Just because he loved (loves) you so much, he gave his own life. Isn't that wonderfull? Sometimes I struggle, do I believe in God or not? What must I believe and what not? But then I look at the sky, and I get that feeling: yup, He loves me, no matter what.
He loves you, no matter what.
xxxx Yasmin
Since a few weeks, I have a new hobby. It's called Postcrossing and I'm really into it. Let me tell you something about Postcrossing: Postcrossing is a site, and if you sign up, you can send and receive postcards from all over the world. Last week, I received my first postcard, from a guy in New Zealand. I was so happy, I couldn't stop smiling =D. I sent postcards to Russia and the U.S.A, my next postcard will go to a girl in Taiwan.
It is so funny that you can receive postcards from random people all over the world and you never know what kinda person writes you. It's magical.
Yesterday evening, I had to sing in the church. I was really nervous, but after church was done I get so many reactions: Wauw, I never knew you could sing so beatifull. It gave me a nice feeling.
I think Easter is the time to tell people you appreciate what they're doing. It's the time of a new beginning, a fresh start. Easter is also a time of thinking about your sins. Maybe you think that Jesus didn't die for you, well I can tell you: He did. Just because he loved (loves) you so much, he gave his own life. Isn't that wonderfull? Sometimes I struggle, do I believe in God or not? What must I believe and what not? But then I look at the sky, and I get that feeling: yup, He loves me, no matter what.
He loves you, no matter what.
xxxx Yasmin
dinsdag 3 april 2012
My apologies!
Hey guys,
I think I really need to say sorry, because I wrote my last Blog a long, long time ago! So: Sorry.
But there happened so much in my life the last 6 months! I don't want to be silly.. Or being pathetic. My mother died six months ago, so I had to do other things than writing blogs.
But I promise, I promise: I'm gonna keep my blog up to date from now!
I will keep my blog up to date with, ofcourse, blogs, but also with photos and videos. (not videos about my life, but about the music I listen and the feeling I get when I listen to it and why!)
I hope you are going to read my blogs more often, and that you will leave some reactions. That would be awesome!
xx Yasmin!
I think I really need to say sorry, because I wrote my last Blog a long, long time ago! So: Sorry.
But there happened so much in my life the last 6 months! I don't want to be silly.. Or being pathetic. My mother died six months ago, so I had to do other things than writing blogs.
But I promise, I promise: I'm gonna keep my blog up to date from now!
I will keep my blog up to date with, ofcourse, blogs, but also with photos and videos. (not videos about my life, but about the music I listen and the feeling I get when I listen to it and why!)
I hope you are going to read my blogs more often, and that you will leave some reactions. That would be awesome!
xx Yasmin!
woensdag 7 december 2011
You Were My Everything
Aviation: You Were My Everything
This goes out to someone that was
Once the most important person in my life
I didn't realize it at the time
I can't forgive myself for the way I treated you so
I don't really expect you to either
It's just... I don't even know
Just listen…
You're the one that I want, the one that I need
The one that I gotta have just to succeed
When I first saw you, I knew it was real
I'm sorry about the pain I made you feel
That wasn't me; let me show you the way
I looked for the sun, but it's raining today
I remember when I first looked into your eyes
It was like God was there, heaven in the skies
I wore a disguise 'cause I didn't want to get hurt
But I didn't know I made everything worse
You told me we were crazy in love
But you didn't care when push came to shove
If you loved me as much as you said you did
Then you wouldn't have hurt me like I ain't shit
Now you pushed me away like you never even knew me
I loved you with my heart, really and truly
I guess you forgot about the times that we shared
When I would run my fingers through your hair
Late nights, just holding you in my arms
I don't know how I could do you so wrong
I really wanna show you I really need to hold you
I really wanna know you like no one else could know you
You're number one, always in my heart
And now I can't believe that our love is torn apart
[Chorus:]
I need you and
I miss you and
I want you and
I love you ‘cause
I wanna hold you,
I wanna kiss you
You were my everything
And I really miss you [2x]
I knew you gonna sit and play this with your new man
And then sit and laugh as you're holding his hand
The thought of that just shatters my heart
It breaks in my soul and it tears me apart
At times we was off I was scared to show you
Now I wanna hold you until I can't hold you
Without you, everything seems strange
Your name is forever planted in my brain
Damn it, I'm insane,
Take away the pain
Take away the hurt
Baby, we can make it work
What about when you
Looked into my eyes
Told me you loved me
As you would hugged me
I guess everything you said was a lie
I think about it, it brings tears to my eyes
Now I'm not even a thought in your mind
I can see clearly, my love is not blind
[Chorus:]
I need you and
I miss you and
I want you and
I love you ‘cause
I wanna hold you,
I wanna kiss you
You were my everything
And I really miss you [2x]
[Talking:]
I just wish everything could have turned out differently
I had a special feeling about you
I thought maybe you did too
You would understand, but…
No matter what, you'll always be in my heart
You'll always be my baby
Our first day, it seemed so magical
I remember all the time that I had with you
Remember when you first came to my house?
You looked like an angel wearing that blouse
We hit it off, I knew it was real
But now I can't take all the pain that I feel
Reach in your heart, I know I'm still there
I don't wanna hear that you no longer care
Remember the times? Remember when we kissed?
I didn't think you would ever do me like this
I didn't think you'd wanna see me depressed
I thought you'd be there for me, this I confess
You said you were my best friend, was that a lie?
Now I'm nothing to you, you're with another guy
I tried, I tried, I tried, and I'm trying
Now on the inside it feels like I'm dying
[Chorus:]
I need you and
I miss you and
I want you and
I love you ‘cause
I wanna hold you,
I wanna kiss you
You were my everything
And I really miss you [2x]
[Talking:]
And I do miss you
I just thought we were meant to be
I guess now, we'll never know
The only thing I want is for you to be happy
Whether it be with me, or without me
I just want you to be happy
Don't think it's to late if you love someone. Even when he/she isn't here anymore.. he or she will be with you.
You're never alone. He or she will embrace you, will protect you, will love you.
Inspired by You Were My Everything by Aviation
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